Don’t Wait for a Funeral to See Old Friends

Don’t Wait for a Funeral to See Old Friends

A few months ago, I felt this strong intuition that I was supposed to visit Maryland. In the old days, I would have said the Holy Spirit was leading me. I don’t know what to call it now, but I still believe there’s something true about that feeling.⁣ ⁣ Gaithersburg,...
Stop Shaming Sex and Stop Shaming Abstinence

Stop Shaming Sex and Stop Shaming Abstinence

Lately, I’ve been reflecting on a thought related to sex and shame—it’s simple but I think worth sharing: We shouldn’t shame people for enjoying consensual sex, but equally, we shouldn’t shame those choosing to abstain from sex. I aspire to advocate for people’s...
Josh Harris TedTalk: Strong Enough to Be Wrong

Josh Harris TedTalk: Strong Enough to Be Wrong

Six year ago when the annual Ted event was held in Vancouver I went to a nearby movie theatre and watched a live stream of some of the presentations. I sat there thinking, “I would love to get to do this one day.” I put “doing a TedTalk” on my life bucket list but...
A Statement on I Kissed Dating Goodbye

A Statement on I Kissed Dating Goodbye

For many years people have asked whether I still agree with my book I Kissed Dating Goodbye. In addition to this question, some readers have told me the book harmed them. While attending grad school (between 2015-2018) I began a process of re-evaluating the book. This...