by Joshua Harris | Oct 8, 2025 | Uncategorized
The process of rethinking beliefs and evaluating the good and bad of religious practice is stressful and often messy. For me, it was one of the first times I was thinking for myself, and that had all the grace of a toddler learning to walk. Here are some elements of...
by Joshua Harris | Sep 11, 2024 | Uncategorized
When I isolate the recent shifts in my beliefs they seem shocking. But when I consider the bigger picture of changes and shifts in my life over many years I can see them in perspective. I’ve been in process a long time and I’m still in process! I have not arrived. I’m...
by Joshua Harris | Oct 1, 2023 | Uncategorized
A few months ago, I felt this strong intuition that I was supposed to visit Maryland. In the old days, I would have said the Holy Spirit was leading me. I don’t know what to call it now, but I still believe there’s something true about that feeling. Gaithersburg,...
by Joshua Harris | Oct 1, 2023 | Uncategorized
Lately, I’ve been reflecting on a thought related to sex and shame—it’s simple but I think worth sharing: We shouldn’t shame people for enjoying consensual sex, but equally, we shouldn’t shame those choosing to abstain from sex. I aspire to advocate for people’s...
by Joshua Harris | Jul 31, 2023 | Uncategorized
Six year ago when the annual Ted event was held in Vancouver I went to a nearby movie theatre and watched a live stream of some of the presentations. I sat there thinking, “I would love to get to do this one day.” I put “doing a TedTalk” on my life bucket list...
by Joshua Harris | Jul 11, 2023 | Uncategorized
People still ask why I changed my thinking about my book I Kissed Dating Goodbye. Back in 2018, I published a statement on my website. The following is an updated version of it. For many years, people have asked me whether I still agree with the ideas I wrote in I...
